include/user: Add `HSET_MOD_WITH_COOKIE` Adds a variant of `HSET_MOD` that requires the provided cookie to match the cookie that was previously stored with the handle. Bug: 382291660 Test: tipc.test && authmgr_be_lib.test Change-Id: I8437ba5c5df4305221a5b06b7359c38dafe97af7