Revert "Reenable assert after test update"

This reverts commit b0814b63df40132952f212129e12f4c8bab6bf94.

Reverted https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/78658 on behalf of https://github.com/malfet due to test_ops crashes with SIGIOT on both PR and trunk CI, see https://hud.pytorch.org/pytorch/pytorch/commit/b0814b63df40132952f212129e12f4c8bab6bf94
diff --git a/torch/csrc/autograd/python_variable.cpp b/torch/csrc/autograd/python_variable.cpp
index 62f4ba0..16778a5 100644
--- a/torch/csrc/autograd/python_variable.cpp
+++ b/torch/csrc/autograd/python_variable.cpp
@@ -483,7 +483,37 @@
     //        because Tensor asked us to (it's already destructing).
 
     if (!self->cdata.unsafeIsBorrowed()) {
-      TORCH_INTERNAL_ASSERT(!tensor.unsafeGetTensorImpl()->owns_pyobj());
+      // TODO: empirically, on OS X this assert appears to be untrue
+      // In test_py_tensors_multi_async_call - ProcessGroupRpcTestWithSpawn
+      // distributed/rpc/test_process_group_agent.py
+      //
+      //  libc++abi.dylib: terminating with uncaught exception of type
+      //  c10::Error: !tensor.unsafeGetTensorImpl()->owns_pyobj()INTERNAL ASSERT
+      //  FAILED at "../torch/csrc/autograd/python_variable.cpp":171, please
+      //  report a bug to PyTorch. Exception raised from THPVariable_clear at
+      //  ../torch/csrc/autograd/python_variable.cpp:171 (most recent call
+      //  first): frame #0: c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation,
+      //  std::__1::basic_string<char, std::__1::char_traits<char>,
+      //  std::__1::allocator<char> >) + 98 (0x1158a0442 in libc10.dylib) frame
+      //  #1: c10::detail::torchCheckFail(char const*, char const*, unsigned
+      //  int, char const*) + 205 (0x11589ed3d in libc10.dylib) frame #2:
+      //  c10::detail::torchInternalAssertFail(char const*, char const*,
+      //  unsigned int, char const*, c10::detail::CompileTimeEmptyString) + 9
+      //  (0x1141e3f89 in libtorch_python.dylib) frame #3:
+      //  THPVariable_clear(THPVariable*) + 412 (0x1148a547c in
+      //  libtorch_python.dylib) frame #4:
+      //  THPVariable_subclass_dealloc(_object*) + 453 (0x1148a5035 in
+      //  libtorch_python.dylib) frame #5: (anonymous
+      //  namespace)::concrete_decref_fn(c10::impl::PyInterpreter const*,
+      //  _object*) + 53 (0x1148a5ea5 in libtorch_python.dylib) frame #6:
+      //  c10::TensorImpl::release_resources() + 182 (0x11588c4a6 in
+      //  libc10.dylib) frame #7:
+      //  c10::MaybeOwned<at::Tensor>::operator=(c10::MaybeOwned<at::Tensor>&&)
+      //  + 91 (0x11488c11b in libtorch_python.dylib) frame #8:
+      //  THPVariable_subclass_dealloc(_object*) + 607 (0x1148a50cf in
+      //  libtorch_python.dylib) <omitting python frames> frame #47: start + 1
+      //  (0x7fff6ffc7cc9 in libdyld.dylib) frame #48: 0x0 + 4 (0x4 in ???)
+      // TORCH_INTERNAL_ASSERT(!tensor.unsafeGetTensorImpl()->owns_pyobj());
       if (auto grad_acc =
               torch::autograd::impl::try_get_grad_accumulator(tensor)) {
         grad_acc->pre_hooks().clear();