bpo-43103: Add configure --without-static-libpython (GH-24418)

Add a new configure --without-static-libpython option to not build
the libpythonMAJOR.MINOR.a static library and not install the
python.o object file.

Fix smelly.py and stable_abi.py tools when libpython3.10.a is
missing.
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