[3.11] GH-103475: cache() and lru_cache() do not have a "call once" guarantee (GH-103669) (#103682)

GH-103475: cache() and lru_cache() do not have a "call once" guarantee (GH-103669)
(cherry picked from commit e5eaac6064561c8f7643011a31fa506e78330798)

Co-authored-by: Raymond Hettinger <rhettinger@users.noreply.github.com>