ci: Switch to using gold as the linker.

Debian defaults to bfd, which is comically slow.  We can't use lld because
the old version we have in the debian stable we use has various bugs.

This required bumping libwayland, which had multiply-defined symbols
issues in the previous release.

Closes: #3236

Reviewed-by: Alyssa Rosenzweig <alyssa.rosenzweig@collabora.com>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/6324>
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