freedreno: Add FD_DIRTY_QUERY

Replace update_active_queries, which was really just a dirty-bit in
disguise.  This also lets us associate it with FD_DIRTY_RESOURCE so
we can skip the associated resource tracking when it isn't dirty.

Signed-off-by: Rob Clark <robdclark@chromium.org>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/21202>