wsi/x11: Avoid a class of deadlocks in the WSI queue thread

Here are two facts, each mildly unpleasant, quite nasty taken together:

- xcb_wait_for_special_event retries its poll() if the fd woke up but
  no matching event arrived, without verifying that the special event
  queue is still registered.
- Present gives no in-band notification of window destruction.

Now if the window is destroyed before the swapchain we're in trouble.
Our WSI thread might be stuck in xcb_wait_for_special_event as we're
awaiting a completion that won't come (the pixmap was being presented as
the window, and then the window was destroyed, so no more events can
happen on that window).

The solution is to use xcb_poll_for_special_event, which is
non-blocking, and handle the appropriate edge cases. If we've run the
event queue but we still don't have an image to acquire, we poke the X
server with a request that gently verifies that the window exists,
allowing the thread to exit gracefully in the above case.  We detect
when we're busy-looping, and poll on the X connection for up to 1ms in
response to avoid burning the CPU.

Acked-by: Michel Dänzer <mdaenzer@redhat.com>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/13564>
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