libc++abi: try harder to force the LLVM unwinder on ARM

Attempting to default the option to ON for ARM doesnt seem to work.  Force the
check lower and perform the check at the two sites that matter: the CPPFLAGS
definition and the header search path setup.

git-svn-id: 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8
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