external/conscrypt: tweaks for next BoringSSL import.

Upstream BoringSSL has dropped |SSL_ST_BEFORE| (which appears to have been
unused) and all the |*_LOCK_*| symbols. The latter are replaced with
|*_up_ref|, with #if's so that it continues to work with OpenSSL.

(cherry picked from commit ba3f063e2b5c18c42727416d173a9c8ef3e2ef08)

Change-Id: Ib609c83d428b7624e24e3b96c93afc2e482e6a6d
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